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Tuesday, November 25, 2008 @ 10:02 PM
Here's something. Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war. When you are deeply in love, heartbreak can be traumatic. Hahaha, lol. If you are going through a period of heartbreak, you must accept the fact that life goes on and so must you. Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes just be an illusion. In the absence of love, there is nothing worth fighting for. The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed. You've never felt pain until you've felt love. There are varying types of pain in life. The pain you get when you have a cut or bruise right up to the pain you feel when your heart has been shredded to pieces. Whoever you have lost and in what way that pain is the worst type of pain that you can experience. But if the love was not there then that pain would not have existed. Why do people persist in a dissatisfying relationship, unwilling either to work toward solutions or end it and move on? Probably it's because they know changing will lead to the unknown, and most people believe that the unknown will be much more painful than what they're already experiencing. Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. Moving on is a simple thing, but what it leaves behind is hard. Get what I mean? Hah. If someone you love hurts you, then go ahead and cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it. Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one.
Set your goals in life. To get started, you must have a destination. Goals are a means to an end, not the ultimate purpose of our lives. They are simply a tool to concentrate our focus and move us in a direction. The only reason we really pursue goals is to cause ourselves to expand and grow. Achieving goals by themselves will never make us happy in the long term; it's who you become, as you overcome the obstacles necessary to achieve your goals, that can give you the deepest and most long-lasting sense of fulfillment. The question should be, is it worth trying to do, not can it be done.
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Why do people persist in a dissatisfying relationship, unwilling either to work toward solutions or end it and move on? Probably it's because they know changing will lead to the unknown, and most people believe that the unknown will be much more painful than what they're already experiencing. Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. Moving on is a simple thing, but what it leaves behind is hard. Get what I mean? Hah. If someone you love hurts you, then go ahead and cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it. Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one.
